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z · Guest

hi,
i am in need of desperate help. i belong to a region where people will probably kill me if they found out that i was pregnant.
while in bed me and my boyfriend have been very careful that he does not make an insertion. but our genitals are very much in contact and he did have an ejaculation this way. so it is not exactly withdrawl as he never entered me. but suddenly this morning when i woke up i

found out that i was having my period which was due in about 15 days from now. my usual cycle is 20-22 days(sometimes even 25). the secretion is red like blood rather than the usual dark brown.

please i need to know what this means. could i be pregnant? or is this just an infection? if so why is my period EARLY. i really need to find out quick as i live under difficult social conditions and walking in to any gynaecologist's clinic is not an option.

don't know whether this is the right place to be asking. but i'm running out of options. i am REALLY scared. please help!

Suzanne · Joined: 22 Mar 2005 Posts: 234

The only thing anyone here can tell you is to get a pregnancy test, or go see your doctor.

sarasmile07 · Joined: 23 Jan 2006 Posts: 64 Location: York, Pa

Yea...home pregnancy test might be the best option as of now. btu if you live in the states you could walk into a planned parenthood or something, and no one has to know about it! :-/ There are so many different ways, that people find out they are pregnant. Soemtimes your body will even let you know, mine did, just a hunch! But yea thats all I can say!

z · Guest

thanks for the reply and i do get your point. but could you tell me what possible explanations there could be for my period being early. and doesn't the period get delayed in case of a pregnancy?
i am going for the strip test. but at this point in time am really confused. why is this happening. the period IS normal except for the discharge color and the timing.

Suzanne · Joined: 22 Mar 2005 Posts: 234

you REALLY need to see a gynecologist! You don't have to tell anyone why you are going. Young women should go for regular checkups, it's not like you only go there for a pregnancy test.

Anytime you are have irregular periods you should see a doctor, not just if you are concerned that you may be pregnant.

z · Guest

i must be getting really irritating....but i have got so many questions. i cannot just go see any gynacologist. i do go to one regularly, but i can't go to her if there is a possibility of pregnancy.

i AM having my period. can i take the strip test during or should i wait for it to be over?? does it have an affect on the test?

Suzanne · Joined: 22 Mar 2005 Posts: 234

Take the test, but if you are having your period you probably arn't pregnant.

Seriously, if your periods are all whacked, no one here can tell you anything other then go see your doctor. If you really cannot step foot in your Gynecologist, then don't put yourself in any situation that may get you pregnant.

animalfra · Guest

if you are on your period your probably not pregnant. But it is possible if he gets off on your vagina to get pregnant so be carefull. Also his cum can change your PH which can cause an infection like yeast or even bacterial. I was disturbed to here of how being pregnant is a danger to your life. I live in America where Im free from persecution and I will pray for you..