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cnm091803
Joined: 11 Jun 2004 Posts: 12
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Posted: Fri Jun 11, 2004 11:10 am Post subject: help im only 16 |
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| I am 16 years old and have been with my fiance for 9 months now and we just recently started having sex. Something happened and I have a feeling im going to be pregnant. I dont know what im going to do .. my mom will kill me i am only 16! im very scared. but abortion is definitly out of the question. Can anyone tell me if my mother has any say over whether i can go through with having a baby?? I dont even know how to tell my mother about this. She asked me a couple months ago about birth control but i said no because at the time i wasnt having sex. Please help. I'd really appreciate it. My next period doesnt come for another 2 weeks so i wont know for sure until then if im actually pregnant. I bought pregnancy tests and Im going to take them as soon as i can. Are there any early signs besides a missed period to know?.. Please help me. Thankyou ! |
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taylor
Joined: 11 Jun 2004 Posts: 97 Location: paisley scotland
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Posted: Fri Jun 11, 2004 11:54 am Post subject: |
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dont panic i had my first daughter when i was 16 it i didnt have no partner he ran off when i told him. Dont get me wrong it was very hard but i wouldnt change her for the world and shes 8 years old now.
All u can do is wait 2 weeks and see if its postive there are worst things.
Good luck. |
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mgiles
Joined: 16 May 2004 Posts: 36 Location: alabama
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Posted: Fri Jun 11, 2004 9:49 pm Post subject: |
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Hey, it's your choice whether or not you have this baby...your mom cannot make you have an abortion. She doesn't have to support the baby, but chances are she will help you out any way she can. Good Luck!!! If you aren't pregnant you might want to approach the subject with her about birth control....... |
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bonitachula2k4
Joined: 21 Jun 2004 Posts: 7
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Posted: Mon Jun 21, 2004 10:04 am Post subject: |
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hey
you should do what you think is best for you and ya baby if you have th support of your mom thats good but if you dont you dont i know she wont be like that for long she loves you it will just take a little bit 4 ha 2 get her babys havin a baby [/b] |
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cherub
Joined: 21 Jun 2004 Posts: 60
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Posted: Tue Jun 22, 2004 9:32 am Post subject: |
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Honey, it will all be ok. Moms get over the shock real fast when their own girls come home pregnant then they help you get ready for baby. mamas just take good care of their girl, cuz you will always be her baby Dont be afraid , everything will turn out good! |
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