Hello, I've been reading some of the other bulletins and you all sound so nice.
I feel sick just asking this question but I feel like I need an outsiders opinion. I am 19 and my fianc? who is 27, who I have been with for just over a year and lived with nearly as long, wants us to have a baby. To be honest, I do too but I am scared.
My parents are uber-religious and I think they would react really badly to us having a baby. They would say I am too young and that we are not married so we shouldn't have a baby.
I have obviously been brought up by them and am inflenced by this and I am starting to have doubts now myself i.e. should i wait til we are married? The problem with this is that we don't want to get married for a good few years yet, and we want a baby much sooner than that.
My other questions are:
This is so silly, my breasts are quite big and I am scared that if I breast-feed they will end up smaller than they are now when I finish breast feeding?
Also, I read somewhere that sex after child-birth will never be the same, I don't know if I could accept that as we are very active that way and I enjoy it, is this true?
I know I sound young, but I have been through one hell of a lot. Thank you for your advice! Xxx