ok, so the one phrase i have learned to live by is this "if a baby cries, something is wrong." so today, my sister came over and sat with mykenzi so i could go get my WIC taken care of so that i had it b4 my surgery and wouldnt have to go out to get it afterwards. so i feed her, dress her, change her, make sure everything is fine and dandy with her. my sister comes over, and i get ready to go, i run down everything with her that she needs to know..
now, i only have 1 pacifier, of which i keep in the diaper bag for crying episodes in the car when i cant get to her, and thats it, if she cries at home, i try and figure out the problem, and i never resort to the pacifier, i did a few times in the begginning, but not any more. so i come home, and kenzi is laying on the couch next to my sister, crying, and my sister is holding the pacifier in her mouth. AND she is wearing different clothes. so i ask my sister, "what the hell are you doing?" all the while, thinking t myself, howd u find the pacifier, and y is she in different freaking clothes. she says to me... "she wanted the pacifier" so i tell her "uuum, if she is screaming and not even sucking on it, how can she want it? and why arent u trying to find out why she is crying?!?" "and why the HELL is she in different clothes?" her response to the clhtes was "she didnt like the ones you had on her!!!"
oh my freaking good lord, what is wrong with her?>!?!
so i go over, pick up mykenzi, she STINKS, she has a poopy butt, i change her, lay her on the floor in her play gym, shhe is fine.
i tried talking to my sister and telling her that i dont appreciate it when people dont respect the way i do things. i respected her beliefs when her kids were young, she needs to do the same. and she responds by telling me "your new at this, you havent learned the ways yet!" so i ask her "how are you helping her if she is screaming and your doing nothing about it?
it was a big old fight and my sister basically left and on the way out told me i had clue what i was doing and that kenzi is gonna give me hell because of the way im raising her!
how can anyone with a conscience honestly say that?>!>!>???
so then she called me later, and wants me babysit when i have my surgery.. but she hurt my feelings so bad, and doesnt respect the way i do things, i dont even wanna see hre right now im so pissed@
have any of you ever had to deal with crazy controlling family members or babysitters/>