I?m glad your boyfriend is normally supportive. That makes me think he?ll turn out to be a great help through this pregnancy. Men have a very different experience of pregnancy of course, because it?s not them that?s pregnant. They can?t feel, see or even ?believe? sometimes until your bump starts to show or they feel the baby?s kick. So you may have to give him time before he really comes to terms with things. To help him feel more involved, you could get him a ?dad-to-be? t-shirt like the ones at http://www.cafeshops.com/materni_tee/221659
It?s a shame his parents are not being more supportive. I don?t have much experience of how the cultural differences may be affecting their attitudes and behaviour.