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farahmahir · Joined: 06 Jan 2006 Posts: 3

I was 4 weeks pregnant when I lost my baby on dec 24th of 2005 !! It was our Christmas gift to our both families me and my husband. I was devastated for 2 weeks.
I don't know what really happened to me on the night of the 24th, I felt too cold at night that woke me up and I saw some light blood spots in my underwear ! so my husband took me to the ER. amazingly there was no pain I was just bleeding and bleeding, so they told me that I'm losing the baby!
I work 6 days a week and I'm very perfectionist women I would like everything to be perfect. So I was very stressed before the holidays getting ready for the family to come, I was cleaning none stop and I got really tired.
and that night of the 24th I had sex with my husband. I don't know if any of these things was the reason of me losing my baby. Tell me about you if you had any similar experience.
My bleeding lasted for one week, When do you think that I can try again to get pregnant?

Farah

Suzanne · Joined: 22 Mar 2005 Posts: 234

I am so sorry for your loss. Nothing that you did, the stress, or the sex- brought this miscarriage on. Please don't blame yourself!

Have you gone in to see your OBGYN? They will want to check and make sure that everything has passed. They will probably tell you to wait a cycle or two before trying again.

Again, I am sorry for your loss Sad

farahmahir · Joined: 06 Jan 2006 Posts: 3

Suzzanne,

Thanks a lot for your replay.

No I didn't go to my OBGYN cause they told me that my baby is a tiny 3 dots of tissue in 4 weeks! that defiantly came done with my bleeding.

Suzanne · Joined: 22 Mar 2005 Posts: 234

Well, then I would say you probably only need to wait one cycle before trying again. Best of luck!

Hannah's Mommy · Joined: 07 Dec 2004 Posts: 601 Location: Toronto

I'm so sorry for your loss

tracey with 6 · Posted: Sat Jan 07, 2006 6:15 pm Post subject:

So sorry to hear about your loss,I don't care if it is only 2 or3 dots on a tissue it was your baby,see your doctor to check thingsd out anyway hun,good luck! Laughing

farahmahir · Joined: 06 Jan 2006 Posts: 3

I think I'm going to take you up on your advice and call my doctor's office to make an apointment.

mrsvoll27 · Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 32 Location: Fort Hood, TX

[IT WAS THE STRESS!!! THATS WHY I LOST MY FIRST ONE! SO IF YOU GET PREGANT AGAIN JUST COOL IT SO YOU DONT HURT YOURSELF OR THE BABY!!!!