Baby Place

laura · Joined: 09 Apr 2004 Posts: 59 Location: WV

I am having a miscarriage right now! But, I am wondering how you get through this and move on? It was a mistake but, I already loved it. Thank you!

tracey with 6 · Posted: Sat Feb 18, 2006 6:58 am Post subject:

You wil get throught this,it will take alot of time and alot healing ,but you will get there! have faith and know that this was not your fault!! Good luck Laughing

Isabel_Kitty · Joined: 01 Apr 2004 Posts: 92

Are you married or in a serious relationship? I had a miscarriage in March of '04. I was 12 weeks along. My husband was a huge help at getting over it. There are still times I do think about the baby/get upset over it but for the most part life goes on.

Chelle J · Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 120 Location: New Zealand

I am so sorry to hear of your misscarraige. I have had two misscarraiges and it is heartbreaking to lose a child. All women are different and grieve differently. But as for me the first few days were the worst I felt so down and so sad that I didnt really function that well. As the days went by things got better but out of the blue I would break down and cry. Please know that it wasnt your fault. Unfortunately these things just happen sometimes. You will get thru this. Take care if you need to talk you can pm me.

laura · Joined: 09 Apr 2004 Posts: 59 Location: WV

Yes, I have been married for almost 5 years. I have a 10 month old and he is helping very much I keep me distracted. Thanks for the replies.