Thanks a lot Posie, that really made a lot of sense and made me feel a lot better. I am young to, 16 to be exact. My boyfriend is 20 though (he'll be 21 by the time the baby is born) so that makes things a little easier. I think at first I was almost looking at the baby as a sign of "oh, we're meant to be together". But I know deep in my heart it's just not going to work, and that getting pregnant isn't some "sign" or anything, it just happened. I know the next few days, months, hopefully not years are going to be ruff but it's better than forcing myself to be with him...I guess. Now I just need to get up the courage to actually go through with it. I really like the board, and the people on here.