Oh don't feel ashamed, please, I have been complaining for weeks now. My husband will tell me "you wanted it" well of course I did, but I did not want the backache, constant peeing and pressure, etc. I have informed him not to utter that phrase while I am in labor or I will not be responsible for my actions. Hopefully I will get good news today at my appt.:) Good luck and a speedy delivery to you too!