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Posted by yvette on April 01, 2003 at 21:55:49:
In Reply to: Re: boy posted by Lucia on April 01, 2003 at 19:50:35:
: : ok my first son is 21 months almost and im now 20weeks preg. with my second son. i only wanted two kids a boy and a girl and im upset bc im not having a girl am i a bad mother bc im really upset bc im not having the girl that i wanted or is this normal???? : Nothing is perfect and no one can ever predict the baby's sex. I also want a boy and a girl however I will be happy having two healthy kids no matter what sex they are. It is pretty normal to feel upset but remember, if the baby is healthy and you are having a good pregnancy than there is nothing to be sad about but only count your blessings. My mother wanted a boy and had 4 girls, so sometimes it is just not meant to be. You are not a bad mom, do not ever feel that way. I have a boy and a girl, and 16 weeks preggo. I wanted all boys. But I love them both very much, you will too.
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