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Posted by Tammy on April 01, 2003 at 23:20:22:
In Reply to: Re: boy posted by Lucia on April 01, 2003 at 19:50:35:
: : ok my first son is 21 months almost and im now 20weeks preg. with my second son. i only wanted two kids a boy and a girl and im upset bc im not having a girl am i a bad mother bc im really upset bc im not having the girl that i wanted or is this normal???? : Nothing is perfect and no one can ever predict the baby's sex. I also want a boy and a girl however I will be happy having two healthy kids no matter what sex they are. It is pretty normal to feel upset but remember, if the baby is healthy and you are having a good pregnancy than there is nothing to be sad about but only count your blessings. My mother wanted a boy and had 4 girls, so sometimes it is just not meant to be. I was the SAME way with my boy i already and a son and wanted a daughter and that was that, but NooooooOOOOoo i had to have another son, after he was here i was OK just glad that he made it here safely.. then when i got pregnant again .. .i was SOoooOOOoo scared that i was gonna have another BOY! ! 1 Bruce told me that it wasnt a boy that it was a girl i was only 5 or 6 weeks when he told me that.. when i asked him hwo he knew.. he told me that HE is the one that put it there so he should know what it is an he was right... dont be so hard on urself,,, just be happy that your baby is healthy and so are you Hugs
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