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Posted by Lori K on December 20, 2002 at 11:27:00:
In Reply to: Re: about my sister..ineedadvice.. posted by kora on December 19, 2002 at 21:50:54:
For starters, she is exposing her children to a number of problems. As they get older they are going to wonder why mommy has so many men over all the time. They will end up psychologically messed up from it (I took care of 2 children for 1 1/2 years who's mother was the same as your sister) and end up with difficulty socializing. Lori
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The kids I took care of were in bad shape. Not only did their mom bring in a bunch of different guys, but their house was repeatedly broken into by a couple of them and their mother was even raped in front of them. The daughter was sexually abused and I think the son may have been also. He doesn't say anything about it but shows a lot of signs that he may have been. The daughter is in a shell she can't seem to break out of and the son is extremely aggressive toward everyone. These kids are in their teens now and the son's problems have gotten so bad that he had to be sent away to live as he was abusing his family (parents included).
Your sister could be killed by one of these guys, her children as well. It is not smart to be bringing these strange men home at all or even disclosing where you live. They could be a complete nut case!
Also, is she concerned about STD's? She should be if she is that promiscuous (spelling).
I don't mean to sound like I am preaching. I am merely answering your question. I know from experience that it isn't wise to trust someone you just met recently. I wasn't the type of person to bring home strange men but I was stalked, raped, held hostage in my own home because I trusted someone I barely knew and disclosed where I lived.
I hope your sister will soon realize where her priorities should lie. Her children need things, yes I agree, but there are many other ways to go about supporting them outside of sex.
Good luck and take care.