I had a little girl when I was 16.I got pregnant when I was 15 and had her a week after my birthday.Anyways I would never go through that again.It was a horrible pregnancy,I was so sick and the labor was dreadful.Her father wasn't there but when I was 2 months pregnant I met a guy who was so great.He was there for the rest of my pregnancy and is now my Fiancee.Well I am almost 18 and I am getting married to this guy that's 20 and we both agreed we didn't want anymore kids.Her real father isn't around so my Fiance is just like her real dad,and he thinks of her as his.He only wanted one child,and I couldn't go through that again.Anyways they wont tie my tubes because I am 17 and 'may wany more children' and they dont give him a Vasectomy because he's 20 and also because he has no 'real kids' they is so upsetting.WE want to be able to have unprotected sex without a worry but doctors make it like we will want more children.Are they allowed to refuse like this??