OH my god, I jsut got over having the same problems!!!! My MIL INSISTED the baby was a boy, and when we found out it was a girl, I was in blissful heaven! I actually was praying it was a girl after a while, just to shut my in-laws up! the whole family insisted that they only have boys first! My husband kept saying "you never know to hsi family" but they kept saying "he" and "him" all the time. They even bought me a boys outfit! HA! Just ignore them, or come out and say, "I don't care if it's a boy or a girl, I CARE about it's HEALTH!" Keep saying that and maybe they will get it, it doesn't matter if it's a boy or girl, as long as the baby is healthy! In-laws!