Posted by Sally 2 on July 14, 2003 at 13:55:33:
In Reply to: It appears to be positive...kind words would help! :) posted by Liz on July 14, 2003 at 13:19:58:
Hi Liz, there are two teachers in this board, myself (I teach High school) and Shayne (who posts under the name Teacher), she teaches elementary school.
Most people wait a few months before telling the school, just to be sure everything is going well with the baby. I think Teacher waited a while to tell the school, but if you start getting sick, they might notice and you will have to tell them sooner! I told them quite early because Dh and I had decided I would stay home, so I wanted to make sure they knew what my plans were and they had someone to take over. As far as what people will say, I wouldn't worry too much about it. I mean, these days there are so many couples unmarried with children and they are doing a great job. Just because you are not married doesn't mean you will be a bad parent. Besides, I know plenty of married and unhappy couples who are doing a horrible job with their kids, they should just divorce! :) But if you are worried and you would much rather be married, you can always do a little ceremony before baby is born, with family and friends.
As far as telling your parents, it depends how they are. Are they very religious and they will freak out? Are they accepting? I think you just have to be truthful with them and make sure they understand that you want their help and positive input but you and your BF are in charge and you will take care of the baby and eveything will be fine. Now, don't be sad, a baby is a blessing! :) so smile!
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