Posted by mare on July 20, 2003 at 16:36:05:
In Reply to: Need advice on Jealousy...kinda long posted by AshleyP on July 20, 2003 at 10:56:54:
: Hi everyone. The only way this is related to pregnancy is that i'm pregnant, other than that, it's simply a jealousy issue i'm having. My husband went to this annual BBQ at his freind from work's house last night. He went last year also, and it's a sleepover. They all brought tents and lawn chairs and sleeping bags. He said it was only for people who work in his company, which was the same last year. There are a few girls, our age, in their young 20s who went also. No boyfreinds and girlfriends were invited. So, I gave him my cell phone and told him I would be calling, which I did, and he called me back this morning. He said he drank a lot last night, which he does once a year, he never ever drinks more than a beer. I was fine with that, but then I asked if there were other girls there, and he said yes, a few. Now I am freaking out. I have seen him drunk twice, and both times was like the best sex ever! He gets really lovey and flirty. He only goes out with these guys and does this like once a year, should I be freaking out, or am I being very irrational. I asked him if he did anything I wouldn't approve of, and he said "Unless you think drinking is a horrible crime, no." He told me he loves and and I need to trust him, and he never gives me a reason not to trust him, but I have always been the jealous type, which I hate. I was really bitchy about him going, and he kept just saying, "I love you, and everything is going to be fine. It's one night, and I'll be home tomorrow to spend the day with you." Am I being totally irrational? God, it's just I lvoe him so much I don't want to lose him. Sorry this is soooo long....TIA.
: i know how you feel....im kinda the jealous type too....but over the years it has really gone down some....as long as he has never given you any reason not to trust him, i would just try and act civil about it....i know how hard it can be....you really sound like me....but its just our own insecurities that make us feel like that....try and hang in there....you will feel better in a few days....just enjoy the day with him :)
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